Prelude The Tradewinds coming in from the northeast are strong in Hawai’i. We are warned not to have the front door and the door to the lanai open at the same time, because the wind is so strong. While Pat is bringing in the luggage, the front door doesn’t latch properly, and it blows open. The wind begins to whistle past my head. The blinds rattle. Papers on the coffee table take to the air. I race to shut the front door before the pictures on the wall fall and I can no longer stand. Whew! The wind isn’t just strong, it is fierce.
Oct 30, 2023·edited Oct 30, 2023Liked by Ann Gauger
I've read earlier versions of this, and enjoyed them, but now this is really taking a clearer shape. There's more flow and more of a thread. It deals with what I find a really interesting issue, long marriage, and the way it can take decades—or more!—to understand each other and accept each other's differences. Now there is much more information that helps us understand both husband and wife better as we read. I like this a lot.
I wish that I could express myself as well as you do. Numbers are my forte, though I have never had trouble expressing my love physically to Chuck or the boys. Glad you have discovered the cause of Pat’s reticence to show his emotions.
I've so loved reading this, Ann! I don't know if I mentioned this during our conversation, but this piece helped me feel less alone navigating one of my own relationships with a man on the spectrum. Looking forward to what chapter you're going to explore next.
What a great story, Ann! I really enjoyed it. Very thought provoking.
Thank you so much, Julie!
I've read earlier versions of this, and enjoyed them, but now this is really taking a clearer shape. There's more flow and more of a thread. It deals with what I find a really interesting issue, long marriage, and the way it can take decades—or more!—to understand each other and accept each other's differences. Now there is much more information that helps us understand both husband and wife better as we read. I like this a lot.
I wish that I could express myself as well as you do. Numbers are my forte, though I have never had trouble expressing my love physically to Chuck or the boys. Glad you have discovered the cause of Pat’s reticence to show his emotions.
I've so loved reading this, Ann! I don't know if I mentioned this during our conversation, but this piece helped me feel less alone navigating one of my own relationships with a man on the spectrum. Looking forward to what chapter you're going to explore next.